A submissive Man

Before getting to Male Chastity, let’s briefly understand what a Female Led Relationship (‘FLR’) consists of. An FLR is built on the principle of mutual consent, with the woman assuming a leadership role as the Head of the Household. Just like vanilla relationships, every FLR will differ, but will usually include the woman making decisions, leading in various aspects of life, and prioritizing her own needs and desires over her partners. FLRs celebrate the empowerment of women, fostering balance and harmony in the relationship by removing conflict. An FLR is in essence and brand of D/s relationship/dynamic.

Male Chastity simply refers to a man abstaining from sexual activity including masturbation. This can sometime be on a trust basis, where the man is forbidden from playing with himself. But as often as not is enforced through the wearing of a chastity cage. The woman will usually hold the key to his cage and literally controls his sexual pleasure as she sees fit. As well as the benefits of chastity, which I will come onto, it also physically removes his control and reinforces the woman’s dominance.

What are the Benefits of Male Chastity:

Relationship Focus: Once a man has a release (orgasm) he immediately looses relationship focus and becomes less attentive. Limiting releases leave sexual desire constantly simmering beneath the surface, the anticipation and longing intensify and make the man very attentive indeed. The man is better able to focus on the FLR and ensuring the desires of the Head of the Household are met.
Power Dynamics: Male chastity can serve as a powerful symbol of the woman’s absolute authority in the relationship, reaffirming the FLR dynamic.
Sexual Exploration: Exploring chastity can open doors to sexual exploration, including experimentation with alternative forms of pleasure, such as teasing, denial, or the introduction of sex toys.

My view for what its worth, is that Male Chastity is an absolutely key part of a FLR. The lady is charge and should be in control at all times. The ability for the husband to continue to allow himself sexual gratification as and when he wants it, is completely at odds with the dynamic of the relationship.