The raw basics here are that husband is not ‘alpha’ enough to satisfy his wife so she needs to turn elsewhere for satisfaction. Historically speaking the wife would cuckold he husband by being unfaithful, taking a lover usually behind his back and without his knowledge. These days it is probably fair to say as many cuckolded men are there completely by choice as those who are being cheated on.
The benefits for the wife taking a ‘Bull’, an alpha man that can satisfy her, are on the one hand completely obvious, but with the added benefit of pleasing her husband.
What the husband gets out of it are a little more complex. There are four key things at play here:
- The cuckold will suffer jealousy, knowing the Bull is taking his place and satisfying his wife in a way he simply cannot.
- The jealousy is balanced by the compersion aspect, where he is happy his wife is happy.
- Next comes the humiliation aspect, the shame and realisation of knowing you he can’t satisfy his wife and needs another man to take her husbands place in the bedroom.
- Finally there is the submission aspect, submitting to another man being in control (in the bedroom at least) and the acknowledgment of his wife’s sexual dominance.
As a submissive man, I can only view cuckolding as a win win situation.
A submissive Man 
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